Saturday, April 7, 2007


findin ppl like me in this world was not tht easy..talkin abt short i m ....lazy..foodie...a bit moody..hate typical tatoos..bikes..whistlin ( wit fingers!) dressin wit branded men jeans! ( which fits me!) wit a loose t shirts for a party..rather than a gown..or salwar! ( plz!)..til today i doubt tht any of ma frnds ( guyz!) ever treated me as a girl...i was referd always as a GUY..or A DUDE! ( they forgot the TTE after DUDE!).. talkin non sense in front of me n reactin in a shocked manner when told " hell ..a girl sittin here!!!) ..being like this was difficult to settle down wit girls who would talk abt nailpolish colors or their next trip to a beauty parlour! u must be thinkin she hardly has girls as frnds then...but u no ma life is not tht sad.. let me tel u !!! i m blessed wit 4 more girls who r just like me!

we would love talkin abt non sense stuff ( which girls usually dont prefer talkin abt or say thy dont find these stuffs interestin ) rather than talkin abt the new lip color in market! haha..we r tagged as the PJ ANGELS! BHUKHADS! KANDIES! n wat not..we r al the same.. ( a few variations here n there! ) but hav same kind of thinkin..n our mothers hav 4 extra daughter!! ( ek saath char free!)

when life took a turn after 12th..we were al in 4 differnt in NIFT..manc n div in LAW..deep in ENG....n trip in B.COM ( PROF) ..being in contact was tough..but thn told u ! we r like mirror images! we meet atleast 2 times a week! not tht we dont hav other frnds! but we r use to each other!

when left ma frnds for ma so called FUTURE! i met many ppl...few stayed few moved on n stopped ..few dint even stop! ( i care a damn!) of them was there but only for a short while but stil had a big impression on me!

basically me not tryin to tell how many frnds i made..or how good i m in makin frnds n all..but just tyrin ma level best to write down how important frnds r ...n wil be! i hav 4 best frnds! u may hav none! but trust there wil be one person in this crowded world who ll stick to u even when u think tht he or she never cared a damn for u!!! this is world!

some ppl think tht frnds r just some kind of ppl who wil stab u on ur back..n then run away..but its not completely true...if ppl stab on ur back they r not ur frnds...n frnds dont stab on ur back! they ll give u a frndly punch on ur bag n say " kyun be salle! kahan tha!? i no there r ppl in this world who hav not met ppl who r so frndly..but wait n watch..or rather look around...u ll be havin not one but so many ppl who would love to be ur frnd not for ur money or ur priced assets or looks..but for ur frndship..ur nature n ur precious time..

there r differnt type of frnds u make! some r too good..some r nice.. n some r just for the heck of it! it depends entirely on u whom u select n whom u dont! but dont crib later after u made your choice or rather selection n say! man..this person just left me when i needed them the most..n dont be surprised to c the one u rejected comes along n stands...!i hav seen this happenin ...

i m not a good decision maker..i also fell so many times rite on ma face! coz i was dejected n rejected even when i gave in ma 100%..but thts ok! coz it was ma choice to make such a frnd!! i m not sad or guilty abt it! but i hav learnt something which is important to survive in this world n tht is to stand up again on ur feet wit the same dignity n self respect..wats the big deal if one person is not the way u thought him or her to be..ther r many who r just the way u want ur frnds to be like! ( this point rather hits n hints towards something which is bit more than frndship!)

fnrds r ment to be the way u dreamt ur frnds to be like! dont change ur self or ur identity for them..coz if u do n they happy abt it..then plz they r not ur frnds! ( changin in the sense! for the worst or to a personality who is just ur opposite!)

this is wat i think frnds r al abt! yaroon dosti badi hi haseen hain! ppl may not be happy wit ma point of u ! but hey ! its ma blog n i write wat i want to!! love the ppl who r tagged as frnds by me! n love ppl who tagged me as there frnds! n i also appreciate the ppl who just kicked ma ass n said! bye bye sweety we hav someone else! coz they taught me a good lesson!

so this is al! ...cheers!